Makena Njeri and Michelle Ntalami marriage is over– here’s the details. After the rumours earlier this year that the two were having issues, Mitchelle has today confirmed that they are no longer together. In her posts on instagram, the heartbroken Mitchelle has given details of what happened between them. See the details below:
" OPEN LETTER OF TRUTH: 1/3)
TRUTH: One word, five letters, infinite power. There comes a time where silence is betrayal to oneself, and truth is the only redeemer. Hard as this is, today I choose to be bold and speak the truth.
In Kenya, where certain laws are yet to be okayed, we like to say of some of our relationships if you know you know. (IYKYK) By now, most people knew about my relationship with someone I will address as they/them. We mutually agreed that while respecting all legalities and each other’s personal readiness, we shall still love boldly and openly.
The purpose of this is message is not to create any further divides, but to shed light on the situation. I am thus not concerned for anything else other than the truth.
This year, more and more people began noticing that them and I are interacting less, both online and offline. Wherever I go, I am asked about them and why we are apart, including right here online, which is why I am addressing it on the very same platform.
Most people felt very supportive and invested in our relationship, by virtue of the fact that we are public figures and we openly shared our love and friendship. I also do understand that there are so many friends, fans, followers and couples we inspired across the country, including the entire LGBTQ Community. I felt that we owe those who loved and looked up to us the truth.
Friends, media and blogs and have reached out to me all year to get me to share on the matter. I couldn’t get to speaking about it because of how painful it was. I realized however, that being silent about it is costing me my own sanity and healing. I have now come to a point where I believe speaking about it will heal me and help me move forward in peace.
The truth of the matter of why we are no longer together is serial infidelity on their part with multiple partners. Those I suspected and confirmed are two individuals; one a public figure, and the other a less known married woman, a health worker. Eventually, these individuals undoubtedly confirmed the above. I attach screenshots and my responses simply to alleviate denial. (All pronouns muted)"- Mitchelle, instagram.
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Out of kindness and to shield them from any potential attacks, I choose not to mention who these people are. More information from concerned friends, observers and well-wishers I’d meet on my day to day, began coming to me about their affairs especially with influential people or those in the limelight.
The deceit and lies spewn during the relationship have been devastating, to say the least. What’s worse, they have never admitted to what they have done, let alone apologized, despite me giving them several chances all year to come clean. As soon they knew I found out, they fled, occasionally popping in and out of my life but never once with the truth. This has caused me immense mental and emotional pain. This explains the unfollows and disengagement on social media and socially.
When it comes to love and relationships, infidelity will never be in my cards. Sure, no one is perfect. We all make mistakes. But at the very least, if they’d have owned up to what they’ve done, we would be in a much better place.
I have sat silently with this pain for almost a year. It has eaten me up inside and affected my mental and emotional health. Each time I am asked about them, I am triggered with the reality of what they did. I now choose me. By speaking up about it, I am denying any more power to my pain. I deserve the peace.
What they have done to me is downright heartless. It is not right to go around hurting someone you claim to love, putting on a facade that all is well, while leaving their life in disarray and not being accountable for the pain and trauma caused. Regardless of whether or not we were publicly official with our relationship, it is the principle of breaking a human being in this way that I am calling out.
Besides the lies and infidelity, I feel extremely used. I am currently coming to terms with all of this. It has been a tough journey this year, but I am learning to let go of the hurt, move on and simply, adjust back my crown. Forgiveness is an emotion you arrive at, not decide to. My heart is big, I will get there." - Michelle Ntalami, instagram.
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To all our friends, fans and followers, thank you for riding hard for them and I. There were several fan pages dedicated to us, beautiful photos, captions and stories written all over. You kept us going, and because of you, we survived a little longer.
To the LGBTQ community, thank you for your constant love and support. I feel terrible because I was lied to, therefore in turn you were too. It breaks my heart when I recall how hard you rode for us and looked up to us as your beacons. This explains my absence in the events by the company. I will always love and support you, and if nothing else, all the work, effort and love I painstakingly put into the company we both began is the biggest evidence of that, and my greatest gift to you. 🏳️🌈
To the few friends, both online and offline who have held my hand and helped me walk this journey. Words cannot express what your support has meant to me. You know yourselves, thank you.
To my family and relatives who met them, embraced them and loved them knowing full well our relation and supported us wholly, thank you for your unconditional love.
To the world; I will never delete anything on my page with them that we shared. Anything done out of love, will never be regrettable by me. It is a beautiful testimony of our love and I am ever so proud of loving them so boldly.
To anyone going through this kind of pain, stay strong and power through it. I know all too well it is not easy. Heartbreak from this kind of betrayal is devastating and should never be treated lightly. Don’t be afraid to talk about it. Seek help, choose yourself everyday and stay around people who want to see you healed, happy and whole again.
To them; I loved you truly, deeply and loyally. I didn’t deserve the deceit and dishonesty. But I choose to focus on how boldly we loved, the beautiful experiences we shared, the impact we had and the lives we touched. When the right time comes, I wish you even more love.
P.S: At least we stole the show.
Michelle.
According to popular sources who spoke on ananomity,Makena Njeri was cheating on with Lilian Muli.
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